Tuesday, March 29, 2011

It's a Love Story...

I had several people before I came to Virginia tell me I would meet my husband when I got here, to which I replied: "Yeah right." Little did I know that the man sitting next to me in Tort's class the first day of law school would be my future husband. I always thought I was falling in love with the law, but I think I was mistaken! ;) Scott and I spent countless hours together inside and outside of class getting to know each other (Scott told someone recently-he highly recommends study groups! ;)

It is neat to see how God prepared Scott and I for "such a time as this," both individually and collectively. I feel so blessed and honored and we could not be more thrilled! So, withouth further adeu, the proposal story everyone has been waiting for...... I was coming home for the second half of spring break, so when Scott asked if he could come as well, I immediately said yes! Since Scott is from North Carolina, and with our busy school schedules, any time Scott (and I) get to spend with my family is truly cherished. On Thursday night, we had plans to go to Waco to have dinner with Mel and her boyfriend Patrick. Once we got there, Scott asked if he could give me a tour this time (as opposed to the many STUFU tours he has received from me!) Learning he had studied the campus, I skeptically allowed him to guide me through campus.....FAST FORWARD.

Scott takes me into Pat Neff. This is where the President's office is located on Baylor's campus. I was a little freaked out because I just knew we were not supposed to be in there. However, I was also thrilled beccause after four years at Baylor University, this was the only building I had always wanted to enter, but could never muster up enough strength. As Scott disappeared into the bathroom for 15 minutes, I began wondering what was going on, only to find Scott walking out dressed from head to toe in a top hat, tail coat, and a dozen BEAUTIFUL flowers (made none other than the lovely Lauren Darr). I immediately said,"What are you wearing!?!" He replied, "I am Mr. Scott Darcy Stier." PAUSE.

For those of you that don't know, Pride and Prejudice is my FAVORITE movied of all time. Mr. Darcy is the main character. I have prayed for Mr. Darcy to come into my life for years and on March 17, 2011, he appeared from the restroom of Pat Nef Hall. Best.day.ever. UNPAUSE.

Scott and I walked up four flights of stairs to the path of rose petals (placed by my lovely sisters, cousins, and dear friend Katie). We finally ended up in the bell tower, which was AMAZING.

Apparently I told Scott about someone I knew that got engaged up there and how cool it was and he remembered-from a year ago. Yep-Mr. Darcy is THAT good. Anyway, I sat down in a chair (graciously stolen from the ZTA chapter room for old time's sake). As Scott began reading me a six page letter he wrote he abruptly stopped. The following dialogue ensued:

Scott: Amy, that [6 foot] bell sitting to the left of you will likely go off in approximately 5 minutes. Amy: Really?!? What will happen Scott: Our ear drums will bust. Amy: Really!?! Did they tell you that?
Scott: Yes, and if that happens you and I will never be able to hear each other for the rest of our lives. So is it okay if I read this really fast and skip to the end?
Amy: Yes!!!!

Next, Scott highlighted the letter. Then, he got down on one knee and said I love you for the first time in our year and a half of dating. I know I have waited to hear those words for so long, but had no idea how good it would be to hear them! :) Then Scott pulled out a ring box. PAUSE.

Before moving on you should note, I was looking at the ring box and Scott was looking at my face. UNPAUSE.

As Scott opened the ring box, the most shocking look of horror overcame my face. Scott immediately looked down at the box to see why such horror to find out why: there was no ring in the box! Yes, I tell the truth. There was an empty ring box. A million and one things were running through my mind (the largest being I bet it got stolen in security, which is interesting because I did not even know Scott had purchased a ring) Anyway, as Scott stood up to search his pockets the following dialogue occurred:

Amy: Is this a joke? (valid question to man in costume opening empty ring box)
Scott: No, this is not a joke- I promise.
Amy: Do you know where it is? Did you bring it from VA? Did it get stolen at security?
Scott: No it didn't get stolen. Yes it came from VA, but I know where it is.
Amy: Are you sure? Where is it? Mr. Darcy is really losing his edge (those exact words came out of my mouth…)
Scott: It is downstairs in the bathroom.
Amy: Are you sure?
Scott: It HAS to be.....

Neeedless to say, Scott scooped up the chair (remember we are racing against the darn bells, which later we found out were turned off...) and we immediately ran for the ladder. As we walked down Scott said, "There are more surprises!" I'm thinking-really? (slightly excited, slightly said in fear). FAST FORWARD.

We get back downstairs and there is a note telling me there is a surprise for me in the bathroom. I walk in to find my own Elizabeth Bennette dress. I put it on and go outside to find Scott standing under the bell tower asking me to dance. As we danced, he told me how he contacted the lady who plays the bell and sent her the sheet music to Pride and Prejudice Soundtrak, which she spent the previous week learning. As she played, we danced. It was sweet. Scott then seated me on the steps, read the WHOLE letter to me, and then got down on one knee (again!) and proposed. This time the ring WAS in the box and is more than anything I ever dreamed or imagined! I absolutely LOVE my ring. I love it even more for the fact that I never once told Scott my style, sent him a picture, nor did we ring shop together. Yes-he knows me that well. Mr. Darcy is a keeper! ;) The following pictures tell the story more than words could ever do...
Dancing......



So, despite the mishap, it all worked out. Scott did tell me that he bought Pride and Prejudice and had been watching/studying it (and Mr. Darcy) and reminded me that just as Mr. Darcy proposed to Elizabeth Bennett twice, he proposed to me two times. So, it really did work out. All I could think of to say when I actually did see the ring at the second proposal were "Oh my gosh-It's huge!" So, it all turned out okay-the proposal and ring were perfect! I still can't stop staring at my hand...

After the proposal, we went to Ninfa's for dinner where 15 of my closest friends and family were there-including Lauren (who flew in the day before from CA), Amanda (who flew in from LBK), Sar and her fiance Josh, Meredith (who "flew" in from Dallas), AND my best friend Katie who flew in from CA for the weekend. Jess was out of the country, but even got international texting for the ocassion. I am truly blessed for such wonderful friends. My sisters, mom, and dad also made the night happen with all their help-It truly was such a blessed weekend surrounded by those that know and love me best!!!

I cannot wait for our big day in August, but more importantly, I CANNOT WAIT to be married to Mr. Scott "Darcy" Stier-the kindest, gentlest, most servant-hearted, strongest, Godliest, man I have ever met besides my own Father. I truly get a better glimpse of Jesus because of Scott and how he loves me so unconditionally (even when I don't deserve it) and I cannot wait to be Mrs. Scott "Darcy" Stier!!!! This is a testimony that dreams really do come true-God truly is the greatest author of romance! Psalm 37:4; Ephesians 3:20

Until next time, be blessed........................